3 herpes myths to stop freaking out about

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A surprising number of people you know probably have herpes.

Shocked? You shouldn’t be, since the virus is very common. According to the World Health Organization, 3.7 billion people under age 50 have herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) — that’s 67 percent of the global population in that age bracket.  Another 417 million people (11 percent) between ages 15 and 49 worldwide have herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2).

Many people consider HSV-1 more benign, but it turns out there’s not much difference between the two types of virus. While it’s true that HSV-2 is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) and can cause genital sores or blisters, type 1 can do the same thing.

“One big misconception is that cold sores are caused by HSV-1 and genital herpes are always type 2, but that’s not always the case,” says Sarah Vensel, a physician assistant in San Francisco. “Cold sores are so common they’ve been normalized at this point. But genital herpes is sometimes the exact same virus — just in a different location.”

Not only is herpes incredibly common — it’s also totally manageable. Allow us to set your mind at ease and debunk three widespread herpes myths:

Myth #1: Only promiscuous people get herpes.

It turns out you can have herpes without knowing it, even in a monogamous relationship. That’s because even if there are no noticeable symptoms like small red bumps, white blisters, pain, or itching, you can still spread the viral cells and unknowingly infect a partner. So promiscuous or polyamorous people aren’t the only ones at risk.

The herpes virus is the most infectious just before, during, and after an outbreak — when blisters are present.  But it also has ‘silent shedding’ between outbreaks, meaning  the virus can spread at just about any time. And intercourse isn’t the only way to contract this sexually transmitted infection, often called  an STI by clinicians. “The majority of new infections are HSV-1, passed from one person’s mouth to another person’s genitals during oral sex,” says Jill Grimes, MD, who wrote the book  Seductive Delusions: How Everyday People Catch STIs.

“A lot of people are completely dumbfounded when they’re diagnosed because they didn’t know they could get HSV-1 on their genitals from oral sex,” adds Vensel. “I tell them, ‘Hey, look — this is normal and it’s okay. I know it sucks and you’re in pain, but it’s not the end of the world.'”

Condoms can reduce your herpes risk if they’re used correctly during vaginal, anal and oral sex, but they’re not foolproof. Herpes can be spread via skin to skin contact in areas that aren’t covered.

Myth #2: A blood test is the best way to know if you have herpes.

Actually, a blood test won’t tell you much about your herpes status. “All it tells you is whether you’ve been exposed to antibodies,” says Carol Grim, a One Medical virtual provider. “But a huge percentage of the population has been exposed, so that’s not helpful.”

In fact, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends against routine testing unless you or your partner have symptoms. The blood test can be expensive and inaccurate, so  you shouldn’t expect it to be included in an STD evaluation unless you ask your provider for it.  Most people with herpes don’t have symptoms and most providers won’t order tests unless suspicious sores pop up. If you do experience an outbreak, a skin swab — not a blood test — is your best bet for confirmation. But if you don’t have symptoms, you don’t need a test.

Myth #3: Your sex life is over.

While there’s no cure, herpes treatment is simple and can shorten or prevent outbreaks, so you can still have a love life.

“People have a disproportionate fear of herpes in relation to any other STI,” Grim says. “They feel like their sex lives are ruined forever and that’s in no way the case.”     

If you have the virus, your doctor may prescribe a medication like Zovirax or Valtrex to keep on hand in case of a flare-up. And if you experience outbreaks often, your provider may recommend daily dosing. However you treat it, it’s worth remembering that herpes is a condition to manage; it doesn’t define you.

“If you have to be ‘perfect’ for your new partner, that partner will be looking a very, very long time to find a match!” Grimes says. “Everyone has ‘something,’ and since one in six Americans between 14-49 have HSV-2, odds are very high that your next partner is in the same boat. The main issue is to have productive conversations around these issues.” 

So there’s no reason for all the stigma and secrecy surrounding herpes, since it’s safe to assume more people have it than you think. And if you’re diagnosed with the virus, your provider will help you find a treatment plan that’s easy, effective, and fit for your lifestyle.

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